I couldn't agree with you more (and all of the other people who commented). There is absolutely nothing wrong with waiting, and anyone who says otherwise is a little crazy in my opinion. Sex is not meant to prove anything except your love for your partner.
I think it's the disbelief that someone can possibly keep their virginity past their teenage years that bugs me the most though, especially when it's a medical professional that won't believe you. I can sort of see if you're a teenager that they might run a pregnancy test in spite of what you say, but if you're of age and you tell them there's no possibility that you could be pregnant they should believe you, end of story. My sister (who was probably 26 or 27 at the time) refused to pay for a pregnancy test because they did it without her consent even after she told them there was no way she could be. *shakes head* Yet another reason I dislike doctors.
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I think it's the disbelief that someone can possibly keep their virginity past their teenage years that bugs me the most though, especially when it's a medical professional that won't believe you. I can sort of see if you're a teenager that they might run a pregnancy test in spite of what you say, but if you're of age and you tell them there's no possibility that you could be pregnant they should believe you, end of story. My sister (who was probably 26 or 27 at the time) refused to pay for a pregnancy test because they did it without her consent even after she told them there was no way she could be. *shakes head* Yet another reason I dislike doctors.