Hurray to you for such a wonderful outlook on this topic.
I was a virgin when I married and stayed married for 19 years. Unfortunately we divorced but not because the sex was lousy...it was darn awesome but because we failed to continue to communicate and grow with each other. I lost my best friend somewhere along the way and it was very sad that we could never find each other.
Now some 10 plus years since my divorce I have been celibate. Not because I hate men, or sex or am gay... but because I *choose* to be picky. I choose to enter into a another marriage (if fate dictates) without the emotional baggage of having *slept* around. I believe in the old fashion - no sex before marriage even though I've been there done that and am more than proud of the fact. My faith and my *personal* perference fuels this decision and in the end it doesn't matter what others think I have to live with ME not THEM.
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I was a virgin when I married and stayed married for 19 years. Unfortunately we divorced but not because the sex was lousy...it was darn awesome but because we failed to continue to communicate and grow with each other. I lost my best friend somewhere along the way and it was very sad that we could never find each other.
Now some 10 plus years since my divorce I have been celibate. Not because I hate men, or sex or am gay... but because I *choose* to be picky. I choose to enter into a another marriage (if fate dictates) without the emotional baggage of having *slept* around. I believe in the old fashion - no sex before marriage even though I've been there done that and am more than proud of the fact. My faith and my *personal* perference fuels this decision and in the end it doesn't matter what others think I have to live with ME not THEM.