I blame it on society being both sex obsessed and less willing to take responsibility for their own actions. I think people like the idea of saying "biology made me do it" because if something happens (disease, pregnancy, adultery) they have something or someone else to blame it on other than themselves. Thus making the choice to wait a threat, because it drives home the fact that we and only we are the ones responsible for our own actions. So when something bad happens, it's our own fault because we made a choice and it was the wrong one.
I can't stand the whole "it's okay for men to sleep with anyone/a boy must sleep with a woman to become a man" mindset. Because, yeah, *sarcasm*it's so manly to knock a girl up then ditch her later*sarcasm* :P The guys I know - guys who I would call real men - are all either virgins or who waited until they were married.
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Date: 2010-07-08 02:58 am (UTC)From:I can't stand the whole "it's okay for men to sleep with anyone/a boy must sleep with a woman to become a man" mindset. Because, yeah, *sarcasm*it's so manly to knock a girl up then ditch her later*sarcasm* :P The guys I know - guys who I would call real men - are all either virgins or who waited until they were married.