I suppose it would depend a lot on how close you are to the friend/how well you think it would be received.
The latter is what tends to make me hesitate. I don't want to leave the person feeling cruddy, nor do I want to deal with someone telling me to lighten up and not take things so seriously. But, then, I've never really come across anything anyone in my f'list said that I felt to be offensive.
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Date: 2011-02-15 04:13 am (UTC)From:The latter is what tends to make me hesitate. I don't want to leave the person feeling cruddy, nor do I want to deal with someone telling me to lighten up and not take things so seriously. But, then, I've never really come across anything anyone in my f'list said that I felt to be offensive.