I can't remember if I've asked this before, and I apologize if I had, but have you ever felt bad for not reading a story? For example, someone you know and whose stories you pretty much always read writes something that you really have no desire to read, yet you feel like you should read it because it's a story by that person and it feels wrong not to support something they wrote. Or something.
I always feel bad for skipping a story that everyone else is gobbling right up, especially if the reason I'm skipping the story is over what some might consider to be a minor issue, or if it's a story I'm just not in the mood to read. It sucks not to get reviews but sucks more, I think, when you have someone who's been reviewing the majority of your stories suddenly stop.
On the other hand, I completely get why this happens. Tastes change, moods change, tolerances change. Back when I first started reading fanfic my list of preferences were pretty small. Just give me gen H/C and I was happy. But obviously that didn't last, and there's so much I can't tolerate or just don't want to read. But I'll look at reviews and see people putting up with what I can't or don't want to and feel bad that I'm not making an exception, or that I'm letting what to others is a trivial thing bother me.
But as a writer I definitely don't expect people to read every story I write. And though, yes, deep down there are times I wish people would make an exception, I don't expect them to, because what's trivial to some isn't trivial to everyone, and even the smallest, most seemingly unimportant thing can taint an entire story for a person, making it incredibly difficult to enjoy no matter how well written that story is.
I always feel bad for skipping a story that everyone else is gobbling right up, especially if the reason I'm skipping the story is over what some might consider to be a minor issue, or if it's a story I'm just not in the mood to read. It sucks not to get reviews but sucks more, I think, when you have someone who's been reviewing the majority of your stories suddenly stop.
On the other hand, I completely get why this happens. Tastes change, moods change, tolerances change. Back when I first started reading fanfic my list of preferences were pretty small. Just give me gen H/C and I was happy. But obviously that didn't last, and there's so much I can't tolerate or just don't want to read. But I'll look at reviews and see people putting up with what I can't or don't want to and feel bad that I'm not making an exception, or that I'm letting what to others is a trivial thing bother me.
But as a writer I definitely don't expect people to read every story I write. And though, yes, deep down there are times I wish people would make an exception, I don't expect them to, because what's trivial to some isn't trivial to everyone, and even the smallest, most seemingly unimportant thing can taint an entire story for a person, making it incredibly difficult to enjoy no matter how well written that story is.
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Date: 2011-10-28 05:04 am (UTC)From:Don't feel bad Chica. You've made your preferences very clear and no one expects you to read something you don't like.
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Date: 2011-10-28 05:29 am (UTC)From:ETA: Or because they're just not in the mood for that particular kind of fic. That's something I always feel bad about, especially if it's something that should be right up my alley (on the other hand, I'll usually end up reading it eventually).
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Date: 2011-10-28 06:21 am (UTC)From:no subject
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Date: 2011-10-28 07:12 am (UTC)From:I won't even get into what if your author writes not only gen but also other pairings you aren't fond of. Or if for a change he/she wants to try their hand on something new. Happens every time. I also for some reason don't like to read future!fics so if the summary doesn't make me curious, I simply skip over it. It's not like every reader reviews all the time anyway, so I doubt the author will raise an eyebrow over it:-)
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Date: 2011-10-28 08:06 pm (UTC)From:I guess because it seems like I'm being petty, which I'm not. Neal smoking, for example, may not seem like a big deal to some but to me it is, because it's something I just don't see Neal doing (And, yes, I know we see him smoking in the premiere, and later smoking a cigar, but a later episode has Neal stepping out "for a smoke" in order to talk to Peter, telling Peter "he had to take up smoking" though we know he's just being facetious. I see Neal as someone who likes to stay healthy, and who probably has the skills to pretend to smoke and make it look real). It's jarring to me and makes the rest of the story difficult to read. Peter whump is a matter of taste and just not something I'm into. I don't mind if he's whumped along with Neal, but Peter whump alone is a let down when it's Neal whump I prefer.
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Date: 2011-10-28 07:49 am (UTC)From:As a reader ... hmm ... I do sometimes feel as if I should read & comment on a story if it's by a friend of mine, or by someone who regularly comments on my fic. Or, I suppose it's more like a neurotic sort of worrying that they'll notice I didn't comment and think I don't love them anymore. But I also feel that way about personal posts, not just fic.
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Date: 2011-10-28 08:37 pm (UTC)From:But, yeah, if your stories vary then it's to be expected that your reviewers vary. If I wrote a McKay centric whump piece with barely to no Sheppard involvement, then I would expect the more hard-core Shep fans not to be interested.
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Date: 2011-10-28 10:32 am (UTC)From:no subject
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Date: 2011-10-28 02:47 pm (UTC)From:As a reader, I can't think of anyone, in fanfic or original published novels, of whom I've chosen to read everything they've written. Seeing that something is by someone like you or Reen, or someone like Tolkien or CS Forester, is more a guide than a definite – tells me that it’s a summary I should read to see if it’s a story I should read. If there’s a question mark and it’s not by a fav author, I’m more likely to just skip it and forget it; if it’s by a fav author, I’m moe likely to give it the benefit of the doubt. At the least, I’ll read reviews and discussion, and sometimes give it a peek later when I’m out of things to read, but even if I don’t peek later, I’ve noticed and thought about the story because it’s by a good author. So it might get recommended to someone else, even though I didn’t read it myself.
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Date: 2011-10-28 09:17 pm (UTC)From:Yeah, that's me these days. I used to be one of those readers who would try and support everyone if their story was decent enough (as in no giving me headaches with bad grammar and spelling). But over time I just couldn't take it any more.
I'll read summaries to get to know a story before reading it. Problem is, some reviews can be as bad as the stories, especially if the reviewer likes bad-mouthing certain characters.
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Date: 2011-10-31 10:58 am (UTC)From:There are some writers I read more or less everything from, but they are the exception, not the rule.
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Date: 2011-10-31 08:16 pm (UTC)From:I've never had that happen, yet, but I dread the day it does. I hate it when I'm put in a position where I don't know how to respond (that is, if it's someone I have to respond to either because A: I know them or B: they keep asking me to read their fic and won't leave me alone).